Is it normal to have questions, fear and worries when it gets nearer and nearer to the day the time comes to be united? Although it has been planned for such a long time and the time will come when the plans are all implemented, however is it normal to feel excited and yet worried altogether?

When a couple get together, I mean as in seriously getting together for years and that both does plan to be together, if not forever but until death steal them away, I am sure they will talk about getting married, having kids, discuss on what type of dogs to have, live what type of lifestyles and of course talks about the marriage plan and so on. The only thing is for the women, they will not know when it’s coming. I mean the question, of course.

And so the day when the question was popped. The plan kick start from that day onwards until marriage vows exchanged, and both are legally tied to each other, forever.

The thing is, when the day of ROM / ceremony / big day / marriage / whatever it is you call it comes nearer, do you feel the excitement or the fear / worry / doubts of the marriage path that you are going to walk soon? And, is that normal?

As some of you who are in my Facebook will notice my ‘relationship status’.

“Will you marry me?”

“Yes”

Is it normal to have questions, fear and worries when it gets nearer and nearer to the day the time comes to be united? Because I am feeling it. Now don’t get me wrong here that I am doubting whether I should or shouldn’t with BH. It is not that as I am pretty sure the answer still stands true. I guess I am just worry of what the future will hold for me, or us. And, hoping that it would be good and happily ever after (alright, sounds like I am hoping for fairy tale sentence here).

What about you? Did you felt it when the time comes?

Labour Day in Malaysia is 1st May and Labour Day in Melbourne is 8th of March, don’t ask me whether it applies to nationwide or not cause I am just lazy to find it out. I am new to all the holidays in Melbourne, thus this will be the first time I’ve gone through the Labour Day. Apparently, they celebrate Moomba festivals during the Labour Day long weekend, over four days from Friday to Monday.

What is Moomba? It means “let’s get together and have fun”! Anyway, you can get more details about it from this Wikipedia page.

We didn’t attend the festival as we were worried about the hailstorm ‘attacking’ during that weekend and wouldn’t wanna get caught in it, if you check on the severe outcome of it here. However, the storm didn’t attack anymore after that major hailstorm on Saturday and the Moomba festival gone through successfully, in fact many went regardless the storm warning! That’s the spirit of Moomba. It did rain non-stop for few days though. Perhaps that's the sign of summer is ending, thunderstorms.

Well, I am not staying at the CBD thus didn’t really go to the city often for such occasion, fearing the traffic jam and crowd!

So where did I get all these photos? The power of TWITTER!!!!! Yes, all of them are from my twitter group. If you are reading this please drop me a note if any of the photos is yours so I can credit it. I was saving it right to my iPhone and unable to multitask (the amazing benefit of iPhone), so I’ve lost the person who tweet it after.

Interesting yeah? Any of you been there before?